"I have been through the fire and flood of life, the addiction and its misfortunes and I'm able to tell a story that people can relate to." -Carlton Mobley, 51Outreach gives him 'purpose-driven life'
Mobley's life began with a rocky start. He was one of seven children raised by his mother in a gang-infested area in South Philadelphia, Pa. He spent countless days of his youth out of school working for a moving truck company to help raise money for his family. As a sophomore in high school, Mobley dropped out altogether.
Life was difficult, "but I always had morals, I always had a heart," he recalled.
Mobley said the ultimate heartache that drove him away from Philly was when his mother died of breast cancer. He joined the military at the age of 21; a chance to search for his identity while traveling all over Europe, including Germany and Greece.
It was abroad that he began to develop his leadership skills, earning ranks as squad leader for his combat unit. After finding his place in the world, Mobley decided to embark upon another journey.
"I told my brother I was going to California one day and I finally did," he said. Mobley has a brother and sister living in Milpitas and another brother living in Stockton.
He got caught up in the ecstasy of a new life, elated past the point of no return and began to engage in risky behavior. He constantly stayed out until allhours of the night, snorting cocaine, going to clubs and chasing girls. Before long, his hopes of living a California dream turned to a nightmare. And after years of self-recovery from a drug addiction, it was one that came back to haunt him again later.
Eventually, Mobley married a cardiologist and aerobic kickboxing instructor after they dated for five months. They moved to Hayward where he had "a brand new house, a brand new car, a new life and a job that was five minutes from (their) house," Mobley said.
But there's one thing he didn't leave behind.
"I was clean and sober," he said. "I was struggling, but I felt good doing it. I was believing a lie that I was OK."
Mobley now cites his inability to go through the proper programming to battle his addiction as the ultimate downfall of tapping into his strength at the time.
He hung out at bars, not wanting to return home to his strong-willed wife who was beginning to grow concerned over his increasingly erratic behavior.
Drinking wasn't really his thing so Mobley wasn't concerned. The way he viewed it at the time was simple: "It was just a substitute."
But after 30 days of having a beer while seeking guidance from strangers at bars, he became a full-blown alcoholic.
"It ruined my life," he recalled. The couple went to counseling, split and he moved in with James, his brother living in Milpitas. In March 2008, after losing work because of a struggling economy, he relapsed into drugs as a "way out." It was then that his relationship with his brother began to fall apart.
"I created a cloud of dust in a trusted family," he said.
Mobley ended up leaving his brother's home to instead spend nights unsheltered, sleeping along train tracks. His brother supported Mobley through his long and difficult addiction. He paid people to find him "down the tracks he refused to walk down" so he could offer a shower, hot meal and above all else comfort.
Once Mobley finally decided to wise up, life had caught up with him.
"I said, 'Wait a minute, I'm 47 years old,'" Mobley said. "By that time it was too late for me to catch up with that last train."
With the support of his brother and San Jose Police Department Officer Ted Ramos, Mobley began walking the road to recovery instead of waiting for the next train.
"There are so many people who said, 'You can do it,' and I was the only one holding myself back," Mobley recalled.
Since then, he has reunited the trust in his family through a number of different accomplishments. He graduated Prop36, the Substance Abuse and Crime Prevention Act, and enrolled in EHC Lifebuilders transitional housing for veterans at the Boccardo Regional Reception Center in San Jose. While at the center, he has been able to access services, including checking employment in the computer room, attending Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and receiving support from staff.
Mobley is now entrusted with a leadership role at the center as a junior advocate in the veterans program.
"It's a wonderful job to be able to help people because I forget about my situation," he said. "Some people, they're not approachable because they're in a situation where they feel hurt or left out and abandoned and I've been through that."
Since Mobley can't change the past, he uses his experience to reach out to them instead.
"I have been through the fire and flood of life, the addiction and its misfortunes and I'm able to tell a story that people can relate to," he said. "And those who haven't been through it they can say, 'Oh that's what it was like.'"
Even though Mobley has made it through leaps and bounds, he continues to "live more than just one day at a time."
"I have goals, I have dreams," he said. "I can't afford to allow things to become an obstacle." That is why for the last two years Mobley has been writing an autobiography about his life, "Treasures of the Heart."
Mobley is on a quest to get his book published; continue supporting his three children, especially his youngest 17-year-old son; and keep moving forward.
"The thing about it that really brings a tear to a smile is when I look back and remember what my brother had told me," on his birthday June 12, Mobley recalled. "'You have finally made it to 51. No one thought you were going to make it this far.' And he was serious when he said that. That lets me know without a shadow of a doubt, I have a purpose-driven life and my purpose in life is to show people that they can make it. Because if I can make it, you can make it. ... Each day that I lay my head down, I've done something to where I can say it was a good day. Thank god for the day."
County would save on services through permanent housing
Even though Mobley has a guaranteed place to rest his head each night through EHC's veterans program, others aren't as fortunate. Each day, people line up at the organization's Boccardo Regional Reception Center in San Jose in the hopes of receiving shelter at the facility. People are selected to stay at the facility through a daily lottery drawing that usually begins around 3:15 p.m.
According to Jennifer Van Every, EHC director of communications, there are approximately 170 beds in the shelter.
"More people need beds than they can usually provide," she said.
Last quarter, the organization saw a 12-percent increase in need, something Van Every attributed to the economic downturn because there is now a combination of the "newly homeless" and chronically homeless (those people who have been homeless for at least a year or three periods during four years).
According to results that were released from Santa Clara County's 2009 Homeless Census and Survey, in the early mornings of Jan. 26 and 27 (when the census was conducted) there was a total of 7,086 homeless people in Santa Clara County. Although this represents a decrease of 2 percent since the last count in 2007, the number of chronically homeless persons has risen significantly, by 35 percent, from 1,680 to 2,270, during this same timeframe.
Supervisor Don Gage, who is co-chair of the county's "Destination: Home" program, said we are spending an estimated $60,000 a year on the average homeless person with a mental illness. That money goes toward services, shelters and emergency rooms visits, where they often go just to get out of the cold. Providing permanent housing changes that number to $16,000 annually.
Michelle Ogburn, EHC's One-Stop Homeless Prevention Center program manager, said she is not surprised by these numbers. She explained that if anyone were to hang around the center long enough, they would notice the constant use of police officers and ambulances.
"It's not the right focus for government dollars," Van Every said. "If we don't take care of them now, we will have to eventually. ... Let's try to end homelessness, not maintain it."
Since being implemented in December, Ogburn said the One-Stop program has helped place 114 chronically homeless people. Pictures of these faces, from all walks of life, are displayed proudly on a bulletin board at the site. Many of the people that have been placed, Ogburn explained, were previously on the streets for years. She referred proudly to one client who found a home after being homeless since the 1970s.
Although she said these results are impressive, there is a continued need to solving the issue of homelessness with the ever-growing pool of people losing their homes during the economic downturn.
On Monday, a 92-degree day, a line of people formed swiftly at the Boccardo Center, beginning to wrap around the corner of the building.
"Two years ago when it was warm out, not this many people were waiting for emergency shelter," Van Every said. "It is a reflection of the economic crisis."
With unemployment nearing 12 percent in Silicon Valley, it seems no one is immune to the possibility of homelessness.
"People feel misfortune can only be upon those who slip up but ... you get caught up in life situations that become a burden to you," Mobley said.
"Everyone's not crazy, just a little unwell," he said of the homeless population. "People have a stereotype for being in the shelter but it catches the best of us. We're just one paycheck away from (ruin) with so many people losing their jobs."
If you need assistance
If you are homeless, at risk of homelessness, know someone who is or would like more information on EHC programs, e-mail help@ehclifebuilders.org or call 539-2100, option 1. Walk-ins are also available, 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday, at the Boccardo Regional Reception Center located at 2011 Little Orchard St., San Jose.
You may also find assistance or information at these places:
Bay Area Shelter Hotline: 1 (800) 7-SHELTER
Bay Area Homeless Alliance: www.baha.org
California Runaway Hotline: 1 (800) 843-5200
Gateway Assessment Center (drug/alcohol screening): 1 (800) 488-9919
Santa Clara County Mental Health Department: 1 (800) 704-0900
Second Harvest Food Bank Food Connection: 1 (800) 984-3663
* * *
This is the second in a two-part series about Santa Clara County's 2009 homeless census results.
Your feedback is welcomed. To post a comment on this story, please visit

